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Cuddle with me?

Female (42) looking for Male Knoxville, Tennessee, United States

About myself
I've tried many sites, and I'm so hoping that this one will be different.
It really breaks my heart when people play mind games, before you even meet them.

I'm 43... male to female.
I have a son (16) and a daughter (12) that live in Texas.
I'm in Tennessee.
My kids are with me once a month, every holiday and all summer.

I don't drink. At all.
I don't do any drugs. At all
There wasn't an option to select "vaping", but I do have a vape pen.
So, disregard that I selected "socially" for smoking. I don't actually smoke anymore, as of a year ago.

I'm a demisexual.
Meaning that unless I feel a strong bond and feel 100% safe and committed to by someone, I can't even begin to think about intimacy.
My ex wife was my first and only partner. Ever.
Being out as myself now, as a female, I'm still pure as far as men go.
I'm only about a year into even admitting to myself that I'm attracted to men.

I'm on hormones, 2 years this February.
I would have the surgery but that isn't a financial option.
So, I'm a non op.

Now, don't let my demisexual aspect make it sound as though I'm not loving... because as far as cuddles, kisses, and playing with hair... there isn't a cis OR trans woman annnnywhere who can give the kind of affection, full attention, snuggles and pampering that I would give.

About my employment status... being up front, I am on temporary disability for severe social anxiety, which I'm in therapy for.
I always had social anxiety a little bit, but it got worse when I came out in 2014. Most people that I encounter love me to pieces.
But the occasional meanies triggered a lot of fear in me.
But as I said, I'm making small steps in therapy.

I mainly want friends.
I would also want a cuddle partner.
Platonic cuddling.
I have moments that I literally ache to hold someone and give them all of this affection that's inside of me.
And then I also have moments that I just hurt over not having someone to hold me and make me feel protected as I drift off to sleep.

Hope to hear from someone genuine and kind.

Thanks for reading.

~ Love,
Melissa

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageGerman
BuildVoluptuous
Height5' 11" (180 cm)
Eye ColorHazel
Hair ColorDark blonde
Hair LengthVery long
Best featureSmile
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special Health Conditions
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusDivorced
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
Annual incomeup to $25,000

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Instructional, Movies, Soaps
Favorite TV showsUnsolved Mysteries, Beavis and Butthead, Supergirl
Favorite movies typesComedy, Romance, Drama, Documentary, Family, Horror, Thriller
Favorite moviesWhat Dreams May Come
Music typesCountry, Rock, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Vacuum cleaner noises, Gospel
Favorite artistsElvis, Celine Dion, Roy Orbison, Vince Gill, Billy Joel, Glenn Frey
Reading selectionNews, Anthology, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, Comic, Health, History, Horror, Humor, Music, Mystery, Philosophy, Political, Religious, Satire
Favorite booksAnything self help.
Idea of funWalking through a park, playing volleyball.
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Family, Dining, Photography, Religion, spirituality, Cooking, Volunteering, Computers, Shopping

Personality

DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asSomeone they want to be
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorSadistic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Going shopping, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading a book, Playing dress-up, Playing video games, TV

Views

Political viewsVery liberal
ReligionChristian
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo make everyone else feel as loved as possible.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness
Look for in a partnerLoyalty... would never invalidate my feelings... not ashamed to be seen with me... is affectionate... will tell me how he feels and won't leave me wondering... holds me when I cry.
On the first dateEat somewhere... then find a public, yet quiet, place to sit and talk... hold hands... cuddle... kiss...